08. Sext Her

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08.  Sext Her

Men this tip is for you! If it's been awhile since you've sexted your wife, send one today! This will thrill your wife and transform her into the dirty girl you hope her to be. She will become a vixen at the touch of the button. Soon you will be thinking, "So much for sugar, spice, and everything nice!"

If you're like me, the more sexting tips and ideas you have the better. Take a peek at Sext It for a list of sexy texts that after reading, you will be using in a heart beat!

For more ideas on putting the sizzle back in your sex life check out Bringing Sexy Back.

07. No Kids Allowed

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07.  No kids Allowed

Make your room a no-kid zone

For those of you without kids this is going to be easy as pie. For those of you with kids, this may sound a little harsh, especially if your room is your children's second bedroom. In order to have a better sex life, you need to take a step away from every day life and focus on each other. 

When you have children you find yourselves immersed in a life that soon seems to be run by those little kids you adore. They take over the house, over your sleep, and over your free time. Before you know it there isn't a space in the house that isn't consumed by your children. As parents you need to hold onto your relationship and set boundaries for your children, allowing them to see that your relationship is a priority. By loving each other above all else you will find that this is one of the best examples and lessons you can teach your kids. Focusing on each other will also help to keep your love life thriving! 

Show your kids that you love each other and need daddy and mommy time by creating a space in your home that is for adult-only activities. A convenient room for this space is your bedroom. Once your kids learn that your room is off-limits you will be more likely to have time and space to yourselves on a regular basis. Your bedroom will become a room that is only about the two of you and will become a haven where you can sneak away for tons of naughty uninterrupted adult time!!! 

Sometimes all we need to get started is a symbol to help remind everyone that your room is now exactly that "YOUR ROOM!"  Take a peek at this adorable "Forever Honeymoon" door hanger sign that will help you do just that --> "Forever Honeymoon" (it's the 3rd row down on the right side :)

For ideas on how to make your room romantic and distraction free visit --> Passionate Bedrooms

To see previous getting in the mood tips click --> Bringing Sexy Back

06. No More Pajamas

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06.  No More Pajamas

I've mentioned this before and I'm sure to mention it over and over again...It's not ok to let yourself go once you get married!!! Men and women are equally guilty of this. Just because you snagged your spouse it doesn't mean they no longer care about what you look like. They love you for what you are on the inside as well as what you are on the outside. If you feel it's ok to let yourself go you will find that this is a one-way ticket to problems with your sex life. If you become aloof and no longer make the effort to be attractive for your spouse, they could become disinterested in having sex with you. 

 Keep your sex life steamy by maintaining or improving your looks. So this means no more flannel pajamas in bed! When you slip into bed wear something that she thinks you look sexy in. To her you could be sexy in that T-shirt she loves to see you wear and snuggle up to you in, your tight briefs that show off your bum, or nothing at all! This advice goes for the wife as well. Wear what he thinks you look sexy in. Don't be caught dead going to bed covered up from head to toe. Hopefully this will encourage each of you to put some imagination into your sleepwear! 

Now don't get discouraged if you don't look like Barbie or Ken!  Your spouse is only asking that you try your best to take care of yourself. If you are constantly worried about needing to look perfect at all times take a peek at this little tip --> You Deserve Good Sex.

For previous Bringing Sexy Back tips click here --> Bringing Sexy Back.

03. Explicit Texts

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03. Explicit Texts 

Send your hubby an explicit text or a voice mail telling him all the naughty things you plan on doing to him the minute he walks through the door. I can guarantee he will be home asap!!!

05. Tantrums and Cold Shoulders

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05.  Tantrum and Cold Shoulders

If one of you is not in the mood, then the other should not Nag, complain, whine, throw a tantrum, give the cold shoulder, or bully the other into the sack. This will harm your lovemaking in more ways then one, you will not get the satisfaction you need from lovemaking and it will ruin your bedroom play from here on out!!!

04. Sexier You

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04.  Sexier You

Ladies...Are there days when you put on your makeup and think, "I look really pretty today!'? Do you have days where you feel like you can put anything on and rock it? Have you found yourself having days where you feel super sexy? If you tend to go through phases like this you should note which days of the month you feel like a sexier version of yourself.  This can be an indication of days where you'll be in the mood.  If you happen to notice a trend, you might want to share this information with your hubby so he can plan accordingly.  

02. Anticipation Trick

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02.  Anticipation Trick

Anticipation is an important part of your sex life. Here's a little idea for the next time you want to give your hubby something yummy to rush home to...When you are in a public place, hand him your panties that you have just taken off.  Not only will this get him in the mood, but it will get you thinking about what he's going to do once he gets his hands on you!!!

01. Get Rid of Digital Distractions

You know those days where nothing seems to go right, you don't get a second to breath, or you are constantly being pulled in all sorts of directions. The last thing on your mind is getting it on! With this section "Bringing Sexy Back" we're sure to get you IN THE MOOD! 

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01.  Get rid of digital distractions. 

Stop checking your emails, texts, or spending time in front of the tv. The more you let distractions into your down time the less likely you'll be in the mood for sex. If you are continue to be distracted how are you ever going to think about sex, have enough time for sex, or feel like having sex? The first step to getting in the mood is to make time for it, so unplug (yes, I'm telling you to turn everything off and hide it if you need to!) and be distraction free!