47. Instruct Him

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47.  Instruct Him

Men like to believe they know how to do everything and if they mess up they will figure out exactly how to fix it without any help. 

There is one area where your man will appreciate a few instructions, he will appreciate direction about what pleases you.  

No one likes a bossy mate so go about it in a clever way, unless he's into bossy!  Try using phrases such as these:  "It drives me wild when you ............................"  I get hot when you ............................"  When you touch my ........................... I become ............................"   These simple and direct statements can work wonders! 

If he is still not getting it than you need to be a little more direct.  Take him by the hand and show him exactly what you like.  Show him specifics of how you like to be touched.  Where do you like it?  How do you like it, light, firm, slow, or quick?

Instructions will benefit both of you and both of you will end up with a huge reward for all of your directions!!!

If you are feeling a little shy or hesitant to be specific with your partner then you need to check out Talk Dirty To Me tips. 

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