18. Take Turns

Chase Him Down

18. Take Turns

If you notice that one of you is initiating more often, balance things out by taking turns.  One idea is buying a supply of marbles in two different colors, one for each of you. When you initiate sex place your color marble in a jar.  Continue to do this over a month’s time.  At the end of the month strive to have the equal amounts of his and her marbles in the jar.  Another option is splitting the week up between the two of you.  You take three days in a row to initiate sex, then one day off for you and your hubby, and your hubby takes the last 3 days of the week to initiate sex.  You and your husband should make the move at least once in your three days.