04. Stop the Blame Game

 Hot Baby Bumps

04.  Stop the Blame Game

You know this story...Many wives find themselves too tired for sex after a long day of taking care of kids, the house, random errands, taking care of the hubby, and possibly working outside of the home.  

Many women report that their spouse doesn't acknowledge how hard their lives are.  They say that they would have energy for sex if their husbands would help them with housework, help with the kids, and be more romantic or affectionate outside of the bedroom.  

Now the husbands also have their own reports.  Men get grouchy during the dry spells and need intimacy before they can be romantic or show other signs of love around the house.   

So how do we fix this catch 22???  The two of you just need to stop it!   Find a happy place, stop blaming your partner for not "getting" you in the mood.  The key is to find out how to feel good enough to make lovin' regardless of the day's circumstances.   What gets YOU to that happy place?  Spend 30 minutes or so each day getting in the mood!!!

Action Advent Calendar

Glitter In The Air

 I came across this cute Action Advent Calendar and had to share this idea with you. 

This idea comes from Let's Lasso The Moon.  The idea is to start an advent calendar that has an action connected to it.  The idea is for the whole family but of course you can make it for just the two of you.  Download the blank printables and add activities for just the two of you.  Such as watching your favorite Christmas movie, making treats together to secretly deliver to a needy family, or a night of passion.  Get creative and you'll come up with some fantastic ideas!!!

If you love this ah-mazing idea take a peek of more Glitter In The Air by clicking HERE

03. Tempting Scents

 Feed Your Sex Drive

 02. Tempting Scents

Oils with these scents are believed to have aphrodisiac qualities: sandalwood, ylang ylang, black pepper, orange blossom, rose, cardamom, patchouli, jasmine, and clary sage.

To get both of you in the mood for romance...Dab a bit of the scent on your wrist pulse points, add a few drops onto your dryer sheets, or fill your house with these scents by burning incense or candles.

03. Naughty Stockings

 Wrapped Up With Love

03.  Naughty Stockings

* Naughty or Sex or Romantic Coupons

* lubricant (Albolene or Eros are good choices)

* Candles

* Desserts On Me Edible Treats

* Restraints

* Naughty Games From Tickled In Love 

* Lingerie

* Grown Up Toy

* Kisstixx Lip Balms

Bring a little naughtiness into your Christmas traditions by filling each others stockings with naughty things, without the other one seeing. Sometimes it's better being on the naughty list then on the nice list when it comes to romance.  Of course your spouse would love a naughty gift from Tickled In Love.  Let me do all the work and you get all the rewards!

20. Positivity

 Fight For Your Love

20.  Positivity

Not one single negative word is allowed to be said about your couple.   When you get upset and want to rant and rave, remember all the amazing and wonderful things about your spouse.  Refuse to let even a sliver or negativity sneak in, focus on the positives and eliminate the negatives!   As you do this you will realize there is a lot more to be happy about than to be sad about.