02. Off To A Slow Start

Sext It Up 

02. Off To A Slow Start

We've talked about initiating sexting and by now you should be on your way to great steamy texts! By now you have talked about sexting, you've gotten the "oh yes" response, and you've dabbled a little. Some of you might still be trying to figure out how to get things started, that's ok. Today's tip and text ideas are going to get you soaring and deep in this sexting world. For those of you who are old time pro's, stick around, you'll find a few new sext ideas. Let's get you started!!!

Don't let yourself get hung up trying to sound like a phone sex operator, or come up with some erotic fantasy, or become a porn star, that's not you and guess what, he wants YOU! The key is to remember KISS, Keep it Simple, Sexy. 

Set The Mood

First you need to set the mood for the direction you want this conversation to go. Set the mood for the kind of sex you want to have, be it animal passion, kinky, gentle, spicy, hot, or sweet lovemaking, whatever floats your boat! The most important thing to do when setting the mood is to take it slow, don't come right out with dirty talk or naked pictures. Take the scenic route, which is usually a longer but more enjoyable drive. Remember sexting is, after all, just like foreplay, you don't want to rush it, you want to simmer in it and wait till it becomes too much to handle before taking it to a whole other level. 

Start Slowly

Dirty talk doesn't come natural to everyone, luckily this doesn't mean that you can't be a rockstar at sexting! In fact, as most of us have learned, it's easier to say things in text that you would never dare get the nerve to say in person. Trust me your spouse is going to think this is very HOT. No need to dive right in, just slowly dip one toe in at a time and work yourself up to whatever level you are comfortable with. Spicing things up doesn't mean you have to be nasty or crude. All it takes is some simple sexting to revv up the boat! For some helpful hints on talking dirty click HERE.

Theme Scene

Sext Theme #1: Dirty Language...Keep it simple. Emphasize on key words that the two of you would understand such as, "Wanna play" or "Who's your naughty girl?" or "lets do my favorite thing." They will get the hint real quick!

Sext Theme #2: We all love our pet names, right?! Then there's no excuse not to use them along with sexy details. "Hey sexy" or "Hi babe" or "Hi Hottie" or "Hi handsome" are definitely worth using. Add a little bit of sexy detail after them. If you are a little unsure of what to write, pick up a romance novel and see how they do it. Trust me, dirty talk is cheesy, so don't worry about taking a big bite of cheese! 

Come On Home

Sext #1: When you get home Saturday, I won't be wearing any underwear 

Sext #2: I’m aching for you.

Sext #3: Last night was awesome with you, I owe you a kiss.

Sext #4: I have a surprise and I can't wait to show you.

Sext #5: I need you. Now.

Sext #6: I want you!

Sext #7: Roses are red violets are blue. Come home so I can be with you.

Sext #8: I can’t wait to see you, to touch you.

Sext #9: I know you’re busy today, but can you add one thing to your to-do list? Me.

Butter Them Up

Sext #1: Nothing is more beautiful to me than you wearing only the moonlight and my kisses.

Sext #2: I can't believe just thinking of you is making me want you this much.

Sext #3: I can’t tell you how much I love the way you feel.

Sext #4: You are my lover, forever.

Sext #5: Every time I think of you I feel naked.

Sext #6: I can’t stop thinking about your amazing body.

Sext #7: In the deep of the night I dream of your touch.

Sext #8: I’m addicted to your love. I need more.

Get the Action Started

Sext #1: Did you dream of me touching you last night?

Sext #2: I dreamed that I was lying in bed with you last night. We were so close and your skin was hot. I never wanted to wake up.

Sext #3: I still feel your lips all over me.

Sext #4: I just got out of the shower. Thinking of you while I was in it. Now I feel more dirty.

Sext #5: Good night, sleep tight. Dream of me while I hold you tight.

Sext #6: I can almost feel you here… caressing me… touching me…

Sext #7: I love the way we make love.

Be YOUnique

Remember to add your personality into these sext ideas to make it genuine and personal. Keep a little mystery and you'll intrigue him. Don't throw out all the good stuff all at once, give him a chance to respond and let your conversation linger throughout the day. Kick up that anticipation level and your spouse will be anxious to return home from work or that trip away from home.

What are you waiting for, got get started!!!

If you like anticipation tricks take a peek HERE. 

Maybe you need a little help getting in the mood, if so take a peek at Brining Sexy Back, for ideas that are sure to get you REVVING! 

Maybe you want to sharpen your dirty talk skills, so take a look HERE. 

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