fans and cheerleaders

As I was watching tonights episode of American Idol...I know, I know, I was gonna quit the show this year but gave in cause I can't help myself! Anyway while watching the show a girl made a comment about her x-husband smoldering her dreams. Instead she sacrificed to help him reach his goals. How can you not feel sad for someone in her same circumstances. Don't be that spouse, the one that crushes their dreams. Be the spouse who is their number one fan, be their biggest cheerleader, and be there to inspire each other.