celebrate differences

When we meet our spouse we love them for their differences. Then we get married and all of a sudden we start criticizing them for those differences we fell in love with. When you find yourself getting frustrated because they are not acting like you or not thinking like you, remember that you are different. Don't try to turn your spouse into you. Instead explain your differences so that you can understand each other. You can have the same goals in mind and yet achieve them in different ways. We are all different and we should celebrate those differences.