different strokes for different folks

Over and over again I am reminded that in relationships you would do better to treat your spouse the way they would like to be treated. Now you're all thinking what do you mean by that?? Well let's say you like to have your hair tickled and your hubby doesn't. Or that your hubby loves sweet notes and you don't. Your hubby should tickle your hair as often as he can and you should write love notes to your hubby as often as you can. Instead of treating your spouse the way you like to be treated you have to remember they are different people with different likes, needs, wants, etc and you have to tailor your gestures of love towards them in the ways they appreciate it most.